Wednesday, July 30, 2008

The Joys of Being a Nanny

The Joys of Being a Nanny
 
- When you are supervising homework time and she finally says, "I DID IT!" and beams as she shows you her work.
- When they were asked to draw a picture of the family and you are included in the drawing. (How sweet, right?)
- When you go to the driving range at the golf course and the kids are so much better than you that you don't have to try to let them win!
- When they leave you notes under your bedroom door because they missed you overnight.
- When they make an egg breakfast for you! And it tastes delicious!
- When they are able to show you how the science experiment works!
- When you take them trick-or-treating and after going through their stash of candy say, "you can have this Reese's Cup, I know they are your favorite" and you know that they will never have a problem sharing.
- When you walk in on them reading a book to their little sister and making the animal sounds in the book!
- When asked "what did you learn in school today?" and they say anything other than "nothing." **
- When they come home from school with an A+ test and thank you for helping them study.
-When you tuck them in at night and they give you a kiss and say they love you!
 
 
** Nannies, if you don't already, ask your charges "what did you learn in school today?" after school each day. I found that it makes them think about what they did and gets them talking about school after the bell rings. Most of the time they will remember this stuff too, so you are helping them retain their knowledge.
 
What are your joys of being a nanny?
 --Katie Conrad
 

Sunday, July 27, 2008

New Kid on the Block!

New Kid on the Block!
 
Let me begin by saying that I am not a veteran nanny. I have 2 years experience as an actual nanny, but over 12 years of experience in childcare - babysitting, coaching, tutoring, mentoring - and that by no means qualifies me as an expert.
 
I do however, think it qualifies me to lead discussions on nannies and nanny experiences. When I was asked the common question "so, what do you do?" and my response was "I'm a nanny," I rarely got anything else. I think people thought that by being a nanny I didn't have experience in any other field, or that I couldn't hold a conversation with someone who works outside the home. Has anyone else felt that they were instantly judged for being a nanny, as opposed to just being a babysitter? It is my hope that we can shed some light on being a nanny, sharing our experiences and concerns, and in the process, emphasize the important role of a nanny, and the lasting impact they leave on children and families.
 
My nanny job was quite rare in that I cared for 2 elementary aged kids and one toddler with a severe disability. A disability that produces daily seizures. One that has not given her the ability to walk or talk. One that gave her severe acid reflux and minimal motor skills, so she now eats via feeding tube. One that has left her with cortical vision impairment, meaning no one knows what or how much she can actually see. But still, she was the cutest little girl in the world, and she taught me a few things.

-- Posted by our new blog guru- Katie